S'ex for couples: How To Get The Best This Holiday

Couples should bear it in mind that having problems with s*xuality or er*ction does not mean that you or your partner is physiologically or psychologically abnormal in any way. A man shouldn’t allow his self-esteem and s*x-esteem to suffer. The moment this is allowed, the case becomes worse.

Rather, it is better to abstain from int*rcourse altogether for a period of time and married couples should instead engage more in cuddling and nons*xual touches. Gradually, over a period of weeks or months, depending on the couple, the partners would have worked toward a more relaxing atmosphere and then int*rcourse will naturally follow. This idea is to make s*x a less-threatening experience and to overcome the anxiety grip.

Couples can even add some spice to the love-making by going to a different setting. They can change the routine by trying out new positions. 

Stephanie Okoereke’s Relationship Questions To Ladies

For ladies, picking the right man to spend the rest of their lives with could be herculean tasks. Many marriageable ladies have had sleepless nights because of this problem.

But respite seems to have come the way of those in this shoe if the poser thrown at ladies by Nollywood actress, Stephanie Okereke-Linus will pave a way in putting an end to this problem.

She recently asked an open question requested to know what they think about the GUY A and GUY B she described.

Stephanie said, “Hiya Ladies! I’ve got a question for you…If you have to choose, which kind of man will you pick?

GUY A
Works 9 to 5. Isn’t always available because of his tight schedule. Gives good loving, Very handsome. Not enough money, buys a lot of things on credit. Monogamous and very kind. Lives in two bedroom. Promising a good fun relationship.

GUY B
Owns a business. Has enough time on his hands. Not romantic. Average looks. Lots of money. Travels all around the world. Keeps more than one woman. Lives in a mansion in Ikoyi. Promising a walk to the altar.

Who will it be ladies? Pick your man!”

The floor is open to all.

Nigeria’s Spiritual Problem Is Too Much Complains—Uti Nwachukwu

Former Big Brother Africa (BBA) winner, Uti Nwachukwu has warned Nigerians to stop complaining about situations in the country. According to him, the social media platforms seem to make an impact to our country today, whether negative or positive. See what he wrote:

NIGERIA- PLS STOP COMPLAINING AND START APPRECIATING! GRATITUDE CANNOT BE OVER EMPHASIZED.
I think one major bane of the success of our country is SOCIAL MEDIA! Ironically this same tool has been used to develop so many countries including ours to an extent- but would you call it negative or positive …. (Search your heart and answer).

You see everything that is happening now has happened before and will happen again! Life is very spiritual and all answers are in the Bible on your coffee table. Before I start please don’t get me wrong o. I’m no saint. I’m a sinner like everyone else and thats why I love Jesus with a passion because he came for, died for and saved people like me not the perfect ones out there who have no sin.
Now I speak.

The Major SPIRITUAL PROBLEM we have as a nation is COMPLAINING!! NAGGING!! BICKERING!!! I’m sorry to break the news to you but this country will NEVER GET BETTER until we STOP!!! Look at the bible, after the Israelite got delivered from Egypt and they were tested in the wilderness, what did they do? Complain!!! And what happened…you know the rest !!

We keep praying for Nigeria to get better but the minute God sends a representative to us and allows us to go thru a test, the COMPLAINING starts!!!

What spurred this Thoth in my head. Super Eagles! This is a team we had all become ashamed of after the 90s God obviously sent us Keshi and some players to redeem our image. After a lot of hard work and training we finally won the African Nations Cup! And we all sang praises (cue in deliverance from Egypt) Now we went to the World Cup and our first draw. The insults started!! We won the other game (cue in manna) the praises started again.

We lost the fell out of the tournament! And then the curses started again. now Keshi has resigned! (Cue in calamities suffered by Israelite in the wilderness). Some are so ungrateful and even saying “Let him go Jor!” “Who is he?” “Is he our God?” Smh. Nope he is not our God. But surely he was sent to lead and grow our team. God will not come down from his throne to help you! He uses people here on Earth!!! This is a huge setback for us especially at a time like this when we have little or no positive stories coming out from Nigeria.

This was one thing that painted us good in the eyes of the world. Oh well… Que cera cera right? …..Nigeria…..we are in trouble if his ingratitude continues! I once told a friend of mine who was loosing his head that : To truly appreciate God is to appreciate his vessels. Nigeria. Watch it! This is a warning from God about our country!!!

Have you ever wondered why the security crises lingers? Yes yes blame it on the leaders and flawed systems! Blame it on the terrorists, blame it on whoever and whatever! But hey. We are praying right? Joining hands right? So why is it still happening?… We have to be careful before God withdraws from this country!! GOD hates Pride and Ingratitude o!

I’m not campaigning for anyone but I remember how we all prayed for a leader for democracy, we Got OBJ. We abused and complained. Still God had mercy. We Got M.Yaradua. We talked and complained some more. Still more mercy..we got G.Jonathan! (Nobody forced you to vote! we came out in droves to truly vote! And we jubilated when he won!)

Now immediately the challenges started ..ghen ghen Nigerians used social media to bicker! Complain Insult!…it didn’t stop…more crises to test us..we complained!!! It just keeps getting worse meanwhile we are praying abi!!! Where is the praise? Where is the worship to God almighty? Where is the thanksgiving?! – did God say we won’t have challenges?? Even Jesus was tested right after he was elevated!!! Did he succumb??!!!

My dear Nigerians it’s not too late o!!! It’s not at all!! Let the GRATITUDE START NOW! Stop all negative talks and complaining! Pray for your Leaders! Support and Love them , PRAISE GOD IN EVERY SITUATION! STOP HYPOCRITICALLY ACCUSING And PUTTING EACHOTHER DOWN, IF WE DO NOT , THEN IM AFRAID GOD MIGHT JUST LEAD HIS PEOPLE OUT in HIs own way and then withdraw from the country. Let’s go back to God TRULY! With happiness, Joy, thanks giving and GRATITUDE. DELETE COMPLAIN FROM OUR VOCABULARY OOO!! and let’s watch things turn around for out country!

Like I said i am not a saint! Neither am I a prophet! And I know A LOT OF PEOPLE WILL START BY INSULTING ME AND ASKING ME IF ME SEF I NEVA COMPLAIN! Some might even Resort to calling me all sorts of names but weather you LIKE IT OR NOT YOU VOTED FOR ME IN 2010 and the streets went wild with jubilation when I won BBA ALLSTARS ! That clearly meant something!!just to Conclude, I’m just someone who is aware of How much God loves him and bathes him with favor grace mercy success good health peace of mind and other spiritual gifts which my close friends and family members are clearly aware of. Yes I loose it sometimes ( evident in some rants online) but yeh I’m not perfect and I never LET GO OF MY GRATITUDE. …LET US ALL LEARN TRUE SPIRITUAL GRATITUDE TO WHAT GOD HAS DONE FOR US.

GOD BLESS NIGERIA! WE SHALL RISE AGAIN LIKE THE PHOENIX IN EVERY SECTOR! STRONGER BETTER AND FULL OF LOVE AND APPRECIATION.

I am very proud of my son and all my children- Kubolor’s Dad Speaks

Pastor James Owusu-Bonsu, leader of Awesome Grace Network (AGN) is the biological father of Wanlov the Kubolor, the Ghanaian rap musician with a special ability to generate controversy and get people talking about him for both good and bad reasons.
Pastor Owusu-Bonsu has told NEWS-ONE what he thinks about his son and also expressed optimism that the ‘gipsy musician’ would eventually end up as a man of God. Read the interview below:
Kubolor’s father is a Pastor! Quite unusual.
Well, all things are possible.
Did you give your son the name ‘Kubolor’ at birth? (Kubolor means vagabond!)
No. I did not give him the name, Kubolor. He picked that name by himself. I gave him the name, Emmanuel Owusu Bonsu.
Has he been a controversial person from childhood?
He has always been that way; very intriguing person. But what is interesting about him is that he is very consistent, very strict and very honest. I can tell you something about Kubolor’s honesty.
From childhood, when something got broken at home and you called the children to find out who broke it, he would step out and say ‘I, Emmanuel, I broke it’. Whether you would spank him or not, he would tell you the truth and run away.
I remember when he was in his final year in secondary school at Adisadel College; there was a time I had a call from the Headmaster, Mr. Kitson. He told me that there was a problem and one of the masters was demanding that Kubolor be sacked from the school.
But the headmaster and other staff would not agree because they believed in the story Kubolor was saying even more than what the master was alleging. They gave me several instances that the boys had done something wrong and Kubolor was the only one who would step out and speak the truth and confess even when there was some punishment at stake.
So in this instance, they listened to him, listened to the Teacher, and believed what Kubolor was saying. I was very touched by that testimony from the Headmaster of Adisadel College, Mr. Kitson.

As a father and pastor, how do you feel about the negative publicity your son attracts from critics who do not understand his style?
Well, I look at it with a different eye from the way the public would look at it. I believe and trust in God. And as I am serving God, I believe in God to take care of all my children. When I pray, I pray for them. When things are going that way I do not get worried but when I disagree with him, I call him and tell him the truth, that he should have done this in a different way. But I leave it to the hands of God.
But listen, let me tell you something. If you look at the history of mankind, there were people whose behaviour seemed bad but at the end they changed for the better. I believe that in the end, Kubolor, eventually, would turn into a pastor.
Are you proud of your son?
Yes, I am. I am very proud of him. I am proud of my children.
Are you aware he does not wear boxer shorts or briefs?
I am fully aware. It was not like that from his childhood. I do not know at what point he turned that way. But if that is how he feels comfortable and he does not walk around naked in public, I am okay and do not have any problem with that.
Tell me briefly about your church and your 1st July programme.
The July 1programme is called ‘Africa in Prayer and Praise of Our Maker’. It is a prayer and praise programme for all Africans resident in Ghana. We are taking advantage of the Republic Day to stand with Ghana in prayer because we believe that what Ghana needs is the intervention of God.
We need Godly wisdom in running the affairs of the nation because we have tried it by the wisdom of man and have failed. That should tell you that we need to look elsewhere at the Creator who created us. If we have tried all other things and they have failed, we need to turn to our Creator and ask Him for direction.
The Bible has hundreds of examples of how God has directed and led nations to success and that is what we would be praying to God for at the Accra Technical Training College on July 1. Admission is free.
Thanks for talking to us.
The pleasure is mine.

Nigerian Actress Genevieve Nnaji Explains her long absence from Nollywood

Nollywood actress, Genevieve Nnaji, has explained that her long absence in movie industry is as a result of poorly written scripts which she feels are not worthy for a professional character.
According to the screen diva, Nollywood was initially known for quantity, but with the trend of things in the make-belief world today, quality needs to be the watchword of every producer.
Being an advocate of change, the actress stressed that she cannot take part in any movie that does not have quality and great professionalism in telling the stories in a convincing manner.
“I am among the people who advocate for the improvement of the industry. So said, I am constantly watching out for the kind of stories I take part in. I am in support of movies that show a great deal of professionalism and creativity,” Genevieve said.
Having featured in top class movies like ‘Ije’, ‘Mirror Boy,’ and ‘Tango With Me’, the actress noted that she can never imagine herself taking in any weak films.
“Having practiced my art in international and professionally produced stories like ‘Ije’; ‘Mirror Boy;’ and ‘Tango With Me’, I don’t think I can return to the blandness and mediocrity that characterised Nollywood in the past,” she added.

“I Never Called My Industry Bland And Mediocre

Few days ago, Nollywood actress Genevieve Nnaji revealed why she has not being seen in movies recently, she said that some scripts do not tell good stories, if you missed itREAD IT HERE….

After the reports went viral, her comments angered a Nollywood movie director, Mac Collins Chidebe as the director was not happy with what she said about the industry, so he allegedly sent out a statement, if you missed itREAD IT HERE….

The star actress has however replied him and said she never said the industry was mediocre and bland as he claimed to have quoted her. Here is what she wrote;

“I never called my industry bland and mediocre. Truth or not, they were NOT MY WORDS. As a person/writer, you can "assume" what you like about my thought process but DO not project those thoughts as "quotes" by me. It's distasteful, insensitive and quite unprofessional. It's insulting to those limited few working hard to make a difference in the industry. I am a product of Nollywood and my loyalty remains unshaken”

TROUBLE LOOMS FOR HONORABLE DINO MELAYE AS HIS SECOND MARRIAGE CRASHES

DINO MELAYE AND HIS NEW WIFE WHEN THE GOING WAS GOOD Honorable Dino Melaye needs little introduction to anyone who has kept tabs with happenings on the floor of the Federal House of Representatives between year 2007 and 2011. Hon. Dino Melaye represented Ijumu/ Kabba Bunu Federal Constituency. While he was a member of the House of Representatives, he served in various committees including Information/ National Orientation where he was chairman Media/ Public Affairs, Communications and Industries. During the 4years he was in the lower chamber, Hon. Melaye was very outspoken and a controversial member of the house. He spoke against the leadership of the House and this obviously cost him an indefinite suspension alongside a few other lawmakers during Dimeji Bankole’s time as speaker. Even after his bid to be re-elected failed, Hon. Melaye has continued to raise his voice against injustice and corruption in Nigeria. However, the last may not have been heard of the Ex- Kogi Federal Lawmaker, as we learnt that he may not be having it smooth with his love-life at the moment. His new wife, Alero Falope whom we learnt is 5months pregnant reportedly abandoned their matrimonial home after suffering severe beating from the controversial lawmaker. Though the immediate cause of the acrimony that resulted in the ‘ Unmanly act’ is yet to be established, the marriage of less than a year, we learnt is threatened and Hon. Melaye’s profile as a reputable individual is fast going with the wind with public disclosure of the happenstance. It would be recalled that Tokunbo Fabiyi, the first wife of Hon. Melaye also dumped him last year over issue of battering. The union produced three kids.